Fights and arguments

Fights and arguments are unavoidable in any relationship. But it’s nice having such a strong history and knowing that, like every other argument, you can work through together.

well known we are human being , there is nothing perfect , so each of you have to understand and support each other. Me with my guy ,iim admit that ive done a lot of things trouble and my partner still dont give up on me , he tried his best to persuade and calm me. . . im appreciate that he understand me and being a strong man i ever met. Thank you sayang. we hve been together since the beginning , si i have no trouble trusting you that you will be here for me through everything else.

You have to know each other’s quirks and “tells.” you know when they’re actually fine, and when they are upset. Because their behaviors and body language are now as familiar to you as breathing.

You’ve probably already made it through the hard parts of fighting to stay together. At some point all couples have to sit down and figure out what they want, where they want this to go, how committed they’re ready to get, etc. You already had to do all that when you entered the real world so although there’s always going to be plenty to work through and talk through, you’ve already covered a lot of it.

the way they laugh when they think something is really funny, the small noises they make when they’re getting comfortable , all of these things they’ve been doing for years they don’t even realize they do anymore but are completely unique to them and new to you. Each moment of discovery increases just how endearing you find them until it builds up and builds up and then you realise that was LOVE . 

to my guy, through the days and through the nights, thank you for always being here with me. . .

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Unhealthy People

Assalamualaikum, hai . . .

Have you ever thought to yourself kenapa sibuk susahkan diri untuk orang lain ? Kenapa sibuk jaga hati orang ?  Sedangkan org lain ? Tak sanggup nak susahkan diri sndri untuk kita . Tak sanggup usaha nak jaga hati kita . Tak pernah nak appreciate apa kita buat. btw, im not going to mad or else in my blog , just a waste , but yaa at least this is the first and the last i met people talam dua muka nie. . .

Time susah tercari-cari, time senang dah tak perlukan kita dan boleh pulak kata kita dari belakang,  complain ,  tarik muka tu jaaa orang lain taw buat bila kita tak boleh bagi atau penuhi apa yg dia nak . Tapi tak pernah pulak nmpk susah payah kita buat untuk dia.  Tak pernah cuba faham sikit pun apa keadaan kita ,tak pernah faham apa kita rasa. . .

Sometimes rasa bodoh sbb im still ambil berat, im still syg akan hbungan yg pernah ada , im still tolong if they need me , and im still harapkan ikatan yang kukuh in our friendship  , but what i get? ditikam dari belakang. . .Mana letaknya sifat manusia dlm diri? Knpa sifat2 yg sebaliknya juga yg dipilih , taw kan sifat siapa tu ?

The most things yang i still cant accept was berpura-pura baik depan aku, kau masih meminta-minta bantuan aku , tapi dlm masa yg sama kau mengata aku. . .  manusia face mask , lol . . .

Aku tak mintx bnyk, aku mintx kau ingt balik ja apa yg aku buat kat kau, at least terima kasih dekat aku. . . lol

Kalau aku nak buat balik apa yg kau buat, aku boleh buat!
Tp, aku tak buat sbb sygkan kau, sbb tak smpai hati aku nak buat balik perangai mcm kau, aku tak nak kau sakit hati , and paling aku tak nak buat sbb aku tak nak jadi macam kau. Aku sakit aku lupakan, aku menangis aku redakan, aku kecewa aku biarkan. . .

Aku tak sedar aku bodoh  smpailah satu hari ada org  buka mata aku, kau tak nmpk lagi ka ,aku ikhlas tlg kau, berkwn dgn kau, semuanya, aku ikhlas. . . dan aku hnya biarkan, aku tak nak jadi mcm kau , aku tak nak berdendam, kerana aku pasti,
Allah ada, Allah tahu niat kita ,  Allah maha adil. . . 

Mungkin kau tak rasa seperti mana aku rasa , Untuk menilai , mengeji, menghina, tu bukan aku.

manusia , they just cant shut their mouth from accusing you, do you realise that things? 

my guy always told me to not worry about who talking behind my back. As long as kita hidup tak susahkan orang , and kita tahu apa kita buat , kita tahu niat kita, Its more than enough. . .

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If there is no tomorrow

Assalamualaikum,
Sometimes hati rasa sakit ,cnfrm ada rasa nak merajuk , nak marah , nak rasa dipujuk and some more. . .
Tapi i realise something , how if kita dh tak jumpa hari esok ? rasa2 hati yg sakit tadi boleh buat kita mnyesal seumur hidup . . . Wht i mean was , yaa mungkin someone buat kita marah atau sakit and that time kita pilih untuk merajuk , dont want to talk or marah2 dekat org yg bagi kita sakit tu , just imagine how if org tu esok dia dh takda , sbb mungkin dah pindah jauh keaa, mungkin smbung belajar jauh2 kea , or mungkin dia pergi dari hidup awak . . . Pernah bayangkan tak ? ?  Menyesal bukan ?

you've gotten to see how far each of you has come. you've seen each other graduate high school, have no sense of direction for a couple years, kind of figure things out, and cautiously step into adulthood. Highschool sweethearts is just one of many things you are to each other. you are also soul mates , best friends , endless supporters, kindred spirits, partners, etc. this types of bonds dont come around that often.
and the wonderful memories you've built together only get you more excited for what's to come. . .
so if you're not really appreciate wht you had before , today , and right now . . im sure you'll regret. . .

the day you have you didnt take that extra time for a smile , a hug, or a kiss and you were too busy to grant someone, that what turned out to be their one last wish. tak salah kann amik masa untuk cakap im sorry, please forgive me, thank you or its okayy if they did something wrong , kita manusia biasa mana lari dari buat silap kann, so the time you have the only time to make them happy while youre still with them which is someone you love, you'll surely rasa happy jugakk . . . and if esok dah takda you'll have no regrets about today. . .

your loved ones are usually super invested in your relationship. sounds intense, but its actually just great. They're always happy to support you, to celebrate milestone and give you all the encouragement that you need. Because at this point , your significant other is just as much a part of your families' lives as they are part of yours.

Im trying my hard to give  my best in my relationship, but once i know he get a called from cyberjaya university i felt like OH NO ! hahaha sounds cruel but yaa  i will miss him badly . . .like seriously naaaaaaaa jerit till tingkap rumah pecah pun im sure im still takkan boleh hilangkan rasa rindu tuu , ok soo whtever. . .  but yaaa dalam masa yang sama im happy for him, deiii not easy meh to further study in  cyberjaya univeristy dengan biasiswa,  he is shooooo lucky sbb SAYA aakan menghantui dia dekat mana2 jaaa dia pergi, hahaha okayy tada kena mengena, k bye.

Soo yaaaa , i have to be strong because i know he will always with me walau dalam keadaan apa sekali pun, i know that, and he have to be strong too sbb dia jaa kekuatan and semangat saya.
So sayangg , we have to be strong , to be honest , to be loyal, to believe , and tumpu sehabis baik dan usaha untuk masa depan . .  . That the things and that is the spirit , i love you , i love you sooo much , Sayang awak dh dapat , terima and teruskan usaha jeaa okayy , i luv u  .  . . .
sekian.

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